Start off immediately with solid strokes that are felt. ♠ Give him a minimum of 10 strokes with a paddle or cane every month, and connect it to things in his behavior the past month that could be improved upon. Ask him if he agrees, and whether or not he encourages you to flirt openly with other men while out with the girlfriends. Remark what a shame it would be if no other men were to enjoy the look of it on you that night. ♠ Have hubby pick one of your sexy lingerie sets out for you before a night out with your girlfriends. ♠ Keeping the house neat and tidy must be part of his daily routine While clean-shaven, have him rub his legs and pubic area in with a female body lotion whenever it’s ‘playtime’ ♠ Have him completely shave his legs and pubic hairs at least once of month. Verbally tease him while doing any of the above (“You may be my hubby, but you can hardly call yourself a real man, can you?…I mean, look at you… Don’t you think a woman needs a real man?…etc) ♠ Have him buy his own lingerie set ( bra, panties, and stockings) and make him wear it regularly while pleasuring you, fucking him with a strap-on, or while watching you masturbate. ♠ Make him kneel in front of you regularly to beg for something (to let him out his chastity cage, to give you oral sex, to massage your feet, to get any kind of sexual favors,…etc). Tease him while doing so: “be a good little hubby and make us a drink.

♠ Invite your friends over for a drink and have hubby serve all of your friends. ♠ Make him carry your handbag occasionally in public. ♠ Insist that he sit down when using the toilet to pee.

♠ Have him paint your toenails and then have him paint his own. ♠ When eating out, choose his meals for him, and be the one to give the waiter the order. ♠ Feminize his name, or come up with a cute ‘girly’ name to call him, and use it regularly. ♠ Make him wear a female deodorant and/or perfume. ♠ Send hubby out shopping to buy you feminine articles (makeup, panties, bras, tampons,…) Have him buy condoms, asking the woman behind the counter whether they have “extra small” condoms in stock. The last category…, well, let’s just say that’s where it gets really interesting ). The first two categories are all ideas or fantasies you can try out without a third party involved. Also roleplaying scenarios and fantasies my Mistress and I have either created or picked up from various online sources to keep the “ cuckold” fires burning and to keep each sexual experience kinky and intense for all parties. Here’s a list of 50 Femdom ideas, and often times, emasculating tips for a submissive man.

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